How Do I Get Him Back by Bob Grant claims to have the secret for you to have a successful relationship with a man. Bob Grant is a licensed professional counselor, therapist, and relationship coach with 18 years of successful practice, so he should know. A common pattern he sees is when a man leaves a relationship, and the woman wonders where she went wrong, and tries desperately to get him back. Talking about your feelings, and getting him to talk about his feelings, rarely works. Writing him a letter is also a waste of time. Giving him gifts and showering him with sweetness and love seldom work either. Find out what will work with How Do I Get Him Back, which comes with a 60 day return policy.